When someone says, “I can’t do it,” I always pause and think is it really that you can’t, or is it that you won’t? There’s a big difference. “Can’t” suggests there’s no possible way forward, but most of the time, it’s not about ability, it’s about fear, doubt, or simply not wanting to step out of your comfort zone.
Let’s be real, we all have moments when things feel impossible. But with the right mindset, a bit of courage, and a clear sense of where you want to go, you’d be surprised at what you’re capable of. Often, the only thing truly in the way is that little voice in your head telling you it’s not worth trying.
Here’s the truth you can, if you’re willing to believe it.I can’t” can be two of the most dangerous words in the English language. Those two words are a big factor in people being unable to accomplish anything.if you find yourself constantly saying, “I can’t” you need to change your thinking.sometimes when we say “I can’t” we really mean” I won’t” . Think about how often you say that you can’t do something. How many times is it just a minor obstacle standing in your way, something small that you will not try to overcome? with just a little effort, you will be able to solve these small obstacles,always solve obstacles in your way, and “I can’t”will eventually become “I can”.
Now that you are starting to think “I can”, you need to move on from there. Certainly, it is better to think that you can do something than thinking that you can’t.saying “I can” can also be dangerous. Now that you think you can do something, that’s a good thing. So, now you can, the question becomes, why aren’t you? I can is a good step, but at this point there is just the belief that you can accomplish something. But belief without action is nothing. At this point, you need to stop saying that you can do something, and do it.
after realizing you can the next step is deciding “I will”. This is where you take a hard look at what you want to accomplish, and start thinking about how to do it. Write out your goals, and the steps needed to achieve the goals. Spend an adequate amount of time planning what you need to do to accomplish your goals. Do not spend too much time planning, though. It is easy to get caught up in the trap of over planning, and over thinking. At some point you need to simply start doing. You need to start taking action on your plans.
You have overcome the fear and inaction of “I can’t”. You have moved beyond simply believing in “I can”. You have made your plans in the “I will” stage. Now you have to look at the list of steps to reach your goals and start taking action. Just take it one step at a time and move closer and closer to your goals. Other obstacles may crop up on the way. If this happens, don’t let it stop you. Step back for a moment, and figure out a way around them. Keep going, one step at a time, and eventually you’ll realize you’ve come farther than you thought.
